Listener Reviews

Changing the narrative,, gifting important language… gaining an invaluable understanding, of how we as women are seen In the world, how we need to work toward change for future generations! Trust your powerful instinct’s!!

You are a brave and courageous woman. Great podcast.

I am learning so much about coercive control from the Gabby Petito series. Everyone should be more educated on the signs and symptoms! Thank you Laura for your important work!

We need more of this—women have been trapped in abusive cycles. “why did she stay? I would have left.” If people could understand the answers to the question without having to ask it, then we can end violence. Or at least minimize it. I was a cop. I am now a lawyer and firefighter. I was still caught in two abusive relationships, one that scared me so much I walked away from a career to relocate. My story made the local news in Arizona. If I had seen the signs sooner, maybe it would have been different. I want my daughter to have this knowledge. I want all of our daughters to have this knowledge. It is ground breaking and important to share these lessons. Thank you for taking the time to analyze and share this knowledge.

Compelling. I’ve learned so much about coercive control since listening to Crime Analyst. I wish this information had been available when I needed it. Tragically red flags were not a thing but I am so grateful they are now.

I have learnt a lot about coercive control and domestic violence from this podcast. It is very infomrative and needs wider distribution. Compulsive listening.

Love. I have learnt so many things listening to your wonderful podcast, very informative, gained a lot of insight, knowledge and understanding Thank you for sharing You are an amazing women, thank you for shining a spotlight on to behaviours/traits of abusers that all women need to be aware of. With much gratitude and appreciation xx

You mentioned that we teach children the mechanics of sex education but not about relationships. I've just remembered, as a community nurse I was given a sex education pack by Johnson and Johnson and told to give a sex education talk to 5th or 6th graders in Australia. There was no guideline provided about respectful relationships, abuse or anything like that. I failed the students in not talking about anything past respect and "you can say no". That was some 35 years ago. I hope the education in schools has changed.

I've just finished listening to your unpacking of the Gabby Petito case and interview with her incredible mother. It's always interesting and alarming to hear how police and detectives around the world fail in the execution of their duties. We find failures in all professions but when the results are a potentially preventable death, it's outrageous. I was a nurse and midwife for many years, I don't remember receiving any training on domestic abuse. Maybe there was some, but nothing that I remember. In the Gabby Petito case, it all seems to point to a lackbof training and a macho culture. I would think that if it had been a male officer with a female officer bouncing off ideas it may have been different but with a supervisor that is pushy, dominant and ignorant as in Gabby's case, maybe it wouldn't be any different. Thank you for your work and to Gabby's mum also.

Congratulations to Samantha for expressing so simply of what I’ve personally struggled to. Sharing this with you (all) in the hope it helps: I suffered diarrhea for two years as my perp’s controlling behaviour increased. Once he’d left my house, my psychologist did EMDR therapy (tapping in my case), and within a week I was shocked to realise I was suddenly “doing solids!” Love to you all x

Women need to hear and act on Laura’s insights. (I feel that the bodies of most women have learnt the lessons but our brains don’t hear them). And men need to learn and act too; they need to decide if they will be part of the solution or the problem.

One of my favourite podcasts. As a woman, I have learned so much. It’s important for girls and women to understand how unsafe the law, policies and society can be for women and in favour of men and/or the aggressor(s). A must learn to make much needed changes. Great work Lauren!

One of my favourite podcasts. As a woman, I have learned so much. It’s important for girls and women to understand how unsafe the law, policies and society can be for women and in favour of men and/or the aggressor(s). A must learn to make much needed changes. Great work Lauren!

unequivocally the leading voice in coercive control. she is incredible

Thank you. Can we talk more to the beautiful, divine, living victims? Who have daughters. Or sons. Can we? This is an outstanding episode. The killing of the joy. …Within the living woman. Can we please please please please please talk about living victims more. This is where the true crime is ENORMOUS ….

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A refreshing and intelligent conversation for all, uplifting to hear in this patriarchal world. Inclusive and insightful, really enjoyed this open discussion. Would highly recommend.

Brilliant episode amongst fabulous episodes.

I've been listening to the podcast for nearly a year on and off. I've learned so much and I'm seeing the world through a different lens. I'm noticing things I wouldn't have previously, and while I'm not in the vocation of protection, I understand better the ways I can help by asking the right questions.

I've been listening to the podcast for nearly a year on and off. I've learned so much and I'm seeing the world through a different lens. I'm noticing things I wouldn't have previously, and while I'm not in the vocation of protection, I understand better the ways I can help by asking the right questions.

Laura is simply the best in her field. Her podcast is not only about real crime, but about real life : that is what makes it so helpful. Thank you !

Kia ora Laura, I’ve recently discovered your podcast and have started listening from the very beginning. I wanted to sincerely thank you for the work you do—putting into clear, accessible words the things all girls and women need to know to help keep themselves safe. I’m also grateful to the women and girls who have been lost, and to their loved ones, whose stories we unfortunately—but appreciatively—learn from. I truly enjoy listening to your podcast and sharing this new knowledge with my daughters, so they can be better equipped to navigate this disguised and ever‑changing world. Ngā mihi nui,

This is a fantastic podcast. Laura does incredible work and her analysis of these crimes is hugely enlightening and educational. A must listen.

I am especially strengthened by the interviews with the children survivors, and especially the brilliant young men children survivors. Please understand I am an elder, a survivor, and a mother of an astonishingly insightful adult son. Laura Richards has a keen understanding while not shying away from necessary questions. Throughout the world these stories are often silenced, stigmatized, or stolen with slight of hand. Or slight of language. Or slight of law. Yet Laura gently and compassionately interrogates the societal structures that leverage so many to death. She compassionately mirrors my lived experience and thus provides a sort of witness, a wise and loving witness that so many of us need for any hope of healing.